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Wednesday, September 15, 2010

marriage :D

Marriage is an amazing entity. Really- it is hard to describe it in all its glory! I am one very blessed girl to have found my true love at such a young age. Now, I don’t actually think I “found” him, but I know God put him in my life at the perfect moment. I met John in Spanish class the fall of our sophomore year in high school and he became my best friend. He was able to meet my dad once before my dad had his stroke, which I am so thankful for! I am glad he got to meet my dad in the state that I remember him in as a child. But really, God had perfect timing because February that same sophomore year was when my dad had his major stroke. John was with me through all of this from the very beginning and I really cant even begin to tell you how blessed I am for that. I think it’s funny how you don’t even realize why things are happening the way they are and then you look back and see exactly what God had in plan. It’s pretty neat :D Anyway, God knew then that John would be my husband one day and placed him in my life at probably the perfect time in my life. I have been able to grow with John in amazing ways and share my life with him since I was 15. I know this is special and I cherish it every day.

So, back to what I stated at the beginning about marriage being an amazing entity. I love being married! John is not only an amazing man, but an even better husband and best friend. Again, I am so glad he came into my life at such an early age so he got to see who I was inside and out for many years- the good, the bad, and the ugly. He also helped shape who I am today. So being together for 8 years and married for 2 has definitely had its up and definitely had its downs. BUT the coolest thing is- that no matter what either of us is going through, says, or does- we are still married and have this amazing connection that lets us work through whatever is going on. Some days I want to scream at him for the smallest things and some days I know he feels the same! But the overwhelming thing about it all- is that our love for each other goes so deep that none of that matters. I think the best thing about marriage so far for me is that I really do love John more each day. I get to be exactly who I am and he gets to be exactly who he is and we get to grow together. We get to share everything. While that may overwhelm some people- I feel so blessed to have him in my life and get to share all of that with him. I am sure I will have more to say on this later, but that’s all for now :D

I love you John <3

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